
On this Feast of St. Francis, the great peacemaker, I want to share with a good conversation I had with a parishioner after Mass last Sunday. She asked, “Why was the book White Fragility chosen?” She was concerned because it seemed so angry and seeking revenge. Here is what I shared. The book was chosen because a group of parishioners heard about the book and were curious, me included. We decided we would meet regularly and invite others to join. The book is challenging to read. It uses difficult and uncomfortable language. It uses a language that does not easily invite others to share in the conversation and is uncomfortable. This is what I learned. We all have a bias. Our bias is based upon our experience: our parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles who formed us, where we lived, went to school, our healthcare and even our grocery stores. We cannot change our experience. It does i...